I came across this
article and I find it fascinating to share it with you its quite important for
us to take some wisdom from it and apply it to our own life. This is an excerpt
from rich’s June 7 commencement speech north central university. It thus says:
Successful
people brim with energy. Have you noticed that? The lucky ones are born that
way, but most of us need to cultivate
it. So let me ask you: How are your energy and health? Are you fit enough for
the climb ahead? Google “triangle of health” and you’ll find the answers. The
triangle is a very easy-to-understand guide to balanced health. The first side
of the triangle is physical health. We all know what that means. If you don’t,
look in the mirror. Maybe a full-length mirror, while you’re naked. Yikes!
Invest in your physical health. Tolerate no excuses. Let nothing stand in the
way. Eat wisely, exercise. Get enough sleep. That’s it—no fads required. So
simple you might miss it. Just do it. This 21st-century economy requires
tremendous amounts of energy. To succeed, you must maximize whatever God-given
health you have. Think of yourself as a business athlete. The second side of
the triangle is mental and emotional health. This one, let me tell you, is
harder. Ask yourself: Is there any mental baggage holding me back? If there is,
deal with it now; don’t wait. Find a priest. Find a shrink. Find a support
group. Do whatever it takes. Personal story: I recently went to a former
Hollywood actor for speech lessons. He advised me on how to breathe, how to
stand, how to gesture. “Don’t scratch your butt,” he said. All of that helped.
I think. Then we spent the next several sessions talking about mental baggage.
Holy cow! We talked about fear, mainly. What makes us afraid? Perfectionism,
perhaps? Fear that we’ll look bad? That we’ll suffer terrible humiliation if we
fail? But what if our greatest fear is not a fear of failing but of succeeding?
Maybe, deep down, we think some bully from our past is going to reappear and
beat us silly if we dare to succeed. Or, sadly, we misinterpret the religious
meaning of humility, as if God created us to be doormats. After all, who are we
to succeed? We sabotage ourselves in dozens of ways. Confront these issues.
Bring them out into the open and deal with them. Class of 2014, you’ve worked
too hard and come too far to get tripped up now. After today you’ll be playing
on a higher level. You can’t let mental baggage hold you back. The triangle’s
third side is social health. Here’s a fact that might surprise you. Did you
know that single men die 8 to 17 years earlier than married men? It turns out
that being single isn’t the culprit. The culprit is isolation. Single men have
a greater tendency to isolate themselves than do single women. They drink more,
they drive worse, and they troll creepy websites. Social health matters
greatly. So as you climb the mountain, don’t forget your social health. Cherish
and nurture your key relationships—those with your spouse, your partner, your
family, your friends. Stay away from creepy websites.
Invest, Don’t Consume
Every
successful person I’ve ever met, from Warren Buffett to Bill Gates and from
Pastor Rick Warren to rock singer Bono, looks at a dollar of money or a minute
of time and thinks in terms of investing it, not consuming it. It’s remarkable
how consistent this investment mind-set is among the very successful. Bill and
Melinda Gates are now the world’s largest philanthropists. But they want—and
expect—their billions of dollars to do something: save children from malaria,
build cleaner water systems. Bill Gates is not about making himself feel better
by giving money away. That would be for psychic consumption. He’s too
disciplined for that. Gates is about investing for a return. Pastor Rick Warren
decided he needed to lose weight and get ft. Subsequently, his fundamental view
of food changed. Instead of consuming food to satisfy feeding desires— which
all of us are prone to doing— Pastor Rick now invests in his body as if it were
God’s temple, which he believes it is. Class of 2014, drop “consume” from your
vocabulary. Never consume. Always invest. For you today I will say you should
drop consumer from your vocabulary and add invest and if possible keep adding
invest everyday [source: Forbes_USA_30 june_2014.pdf]
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